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Salopian 
"Four ever European"
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 Posted - 11/28/2006 : 16:33:57
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benj clews 
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Posted - 11/28/2006 : 16:46:11
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In this day and age of spam, viruses and spyware, I don't see how you can consider your inbox in any way intimate. I certainly check the name of sender and subject line before opening anything I receive. In fact, if anything, this forum is more intimate for me- I at least know what is posted here will be relevant to me.
P.S. From a security standpoint, this forum is no more in the public domain than a virus-infected inbox. |
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Salopian
"Four ever European"
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Posted - 11/28/2006 : 16:54:45
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I was talking more as a matter of principle. I don't really get any spam in my inbox, so I assume that filling an address in online is a much bigger source of that than sending e-mails to specific individuals.
I stand by what I said - if someone wants to communicate with me individually, they can do so with their e-mail address (which after all can also be pretty anonymous or a junk address) or not at all. |
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benj clews
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Posted - 11/28/2006 : 17:04:09
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Originally posted by Salopian
I stand by what I said - if someone wants to communicate with me individually, they can do so with their e-mail address (which after all can also be pretty anonymous or a junk address) or not at all.
So what you're really saying is email addresses are as anonymous as personal messaging without that box checked. Why is a (potentially faked) email address any more valid? |
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Salopian
"Four ever European"
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Posted - 11/28/2006 : 17:12:57
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Faked?
It would be preferable because (i) they would not explicitly trying to be secretive and (ii), to return to the original point, they would not be causing me hassle by their own bizarre preferences.
Anyway, I don't want to go on about this. So long as they do not impose their sinister behaviour on me by contacting me in that way, people can do as they please. |
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benj clews
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Posted - 11/28/2006 : 17:32:40
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Originally posted by Salopian
Faked?
It would be preferable because (i) they would not explicitly trying to be secretive and (ii), to return to the original point, they would not be causing me hassle by their own bizarre preferences.
Perhaps faked isn't the best word. Pretend would be better. As in sending your email from an address that isn't your own.
Anyhow, since the present default is to message without including your email, then you really can't say anyone is explicitly trying to be secretive. Only by me providing a check a box that says "Hide my email address" can you really say anyone has chosen to be secretive.
As for the issue of the hassle of replying, I hope to write a better way of handling replying. Right now, it's a bit of a botch job. |
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randall 
"I like to watch."
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Posted - 11/28/2006 : 20:24:38
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Sean 
"Necrosphenisciform anthropophagist."
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Posted - 11/28/2006 : 21:47:20
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Originally posted by Salopian
I was talking more as a matter of principle. I don't really get any spam in my inbox...
Then I can see how you see 'anonymity' as more of an issue than spam and cyber-crime.
Losing an email address to spammers (I mean having to change email address because my address is on every criminal's mailing list) is a serious pain in the butt. It can take ages to contact everyone with the change, and go to every website that has newsletters that I subscribe to and change my details, and do the same with every online retailer I use etc etc.
I earn a living sitting in front of my computer, I have multiple levels of security set up, and the security that benj allows through hidden email addresses is just another useful security tool. I can't afford to have my security breached on a regular basis (it was breached about two years ago, and my new alpha-numeric email address has been fine since then, touch wood) simply because someone has their feathers ruffled by some perceived insult caused by a degree of separation between them and me.
So if your need to feel that your communication with other fwfrers is of a more personal nature (there's nothing wrong with that I might add  ) is more important than the security of the business I run from home on this computer, then sorry, but there's not much I can do about that. My security is non-negotiable. |
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